Personality is the reflection of our inner mind. It is essential to develop an impressive personality that will enhance the quality of learning and educating oneself. Personality development lesson needs to start from students’ life. The solution to improving a student’s personality is making certain changes in your external as well internal environment including specific performance patterns to strengthen fine personality traits and take away or lessen negative behavior traits. These changes will touch upon many aspects of a student such as communication skills, body language, clothing, and self-confidence etc.
There are some tips, if a student follows those from childhood, he/ she can make a good personality.
Study Your Own self:
Self study is most important to grow one’s personality because during study one can understand his capability. Knowing your talents as well as shortcomings will give you an insight into problem areas that are hindering with the process of personality development. Don’t listen others but do self criticism. That will help to grow personality. See how it works in improving your image amongst peer group and your teacher, guide or mentor. You should also seek hidden skills and talents that you are good at. Polish such positive points to shine bright in your class and among friends.
Great Communication Skill:
If you want to grow your communication skill them must read book loudly and practice pronunciation by yourselves in front of the mirror. How you talk that will describe how you are. Because of lack of words, if you can’t express your selves in front of others then no one understand you. To grow communication skill read news paper and also participate all group discussions, debate etc. It does not necessarily mean that you have to talking all the time! But yes, students can impress their faculty as well as future interviewers effectively by to-the-point discussions and informative replies.
Body Language Shown Your Personality:
It is not just our tongue that talks. Our body also says out a loud. People around you get unique signals about your attitude by observing your body language. So, say it out impressively through your body’s postures. Keep a habit of holding your head high, shoulders pulled back. Do not drag your feet while walking, rather, pick up your feet and take more confident steps. Control your body from swaying too much. Most importantly, don’t forget to wear a smile as it can make you look pleasant.
Be a Patient Listener:
Listen to what the other person is saying and try to fathom what do the words intend to mean. We usually listen, just to listen. This means we are not attentive to the thoughts being expressed by the person. Give everyone their importance by listening intently and then responding by voicing out your opinion. This is especially important for the image building process you are working upon for your personality.
Personality can be polished not in a day, but very gradually. Search for your shortcomings and try to work on them. Put in these simple efforts and you will find you are being liked and appreciated much more.
